Saturday, September 10, 2005
Stronger Than Dirt
It has happened a couple of times wherein my little javascript which list referrers to my blog experience a little glitch in their system. If you are to scroll down my blog, you will usually find a small list of links to other websites just below my Wishlist with a heading "Referring Webpages, last 24 hours." Sometimes, this list would register blogs I have never heard of and when I go and check out these blogs, my link is not there and I don't know the owner of the blog listed.
That glitch happened today.
I checked out my blog to see if some of my friends who are regular visitors would leave me a message on my tagboard or a comment on one of my entries. When I checked my list of referrers, I noticed that there were about 5 websites listed which I'm not familiar with.
Of course my curiosity got the best of me so I clicked on the first unfamiliar link on the list which is
stronger than dirt.
Upon reading the first few entries of this blog, I got hooked. I read all of the entries which is not that hard to accomplish since the author has just started her blog last August 2005.
Here's one entry from the blog (which is also the first entry):
Friday, August 26, 2005
It is hard with the relationship over in words but not in action. He is still coming home every night. He is spending time with me. The obvious difference is that he is now sleeping on the couch. It makes it hard to break away.I love him so much, how can he walk away from that?
posted by Heidi at 10:46 AM I see marriages fail left and right. Most of the time, when my friends and I hear about a showbiz couple getting married, we usually cynically say, "Gaano katagal kaya sila tatagal?"
Gone are the days wherein marriages are treated to be sacred, holy and done only once in a lifetime. These days, people get married and when they're sick and tired of their husband or wife, they get a divorce. Since we're in the Philippines, there is only annulment.
My mom's separated but she's legally divorced in the US. Two of my
Titas are divorced and have re-married. Two
Titas on my father's side decided not to get married at all. So there's a very big chance that I
might end up divorced or forever single. I hope none of that happens.
I've never given much thought to my wedding day nor to getting married, being a wife and a mother until these past few weeks. When I told my Titas about my plans of settling down in the near future, I got mixed reactions. Two of my Tita, the divorced ones who have re-married, are quite excited and I am sure are already planning what to wear. While two Titas of mine, the one who's still single and the other one who's quite happily married, are not too excited for me. They advised me to think a million times before I take the big leap from being single to being a wife.
As for Mama... she's supporting me in my decision as always. I'm sure that if she thinks I'm not doing the right thing, she won't let me. Since I'm not hearing any objections from her, I guess I'm doing the right thing.
Maan @ 12:31 AM
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